Dealing with **** on social media

There is a huge advantage to dealing with **** on social media as apposed to real life…as long as you are not the kind to constantly video chat or send ‘those pics’!!! Then the **** has hit the fan…………

For those who feel ‘old’ women are not stalked/ pursued…..think again…..there are ‘fans’ of every person, big or small, beautiful or ugly, in every age group, in every region of the world…….we all have a formula for dealing with stuff…here is my way, I would love to learn what others do……here is what annoys me and what I do…..

  • Annoying, daily messages with flowers, etc etc from men (women have not done so, yet)………I am not anybody to you and you are not anybody who actually exists for me….I have removed the messenger on my phone..problem solved 🙂 There are some who feel middle-aged or over-the-hill women will be flattered easily…in a way, these messages of ‘extreme praise’ insult my intelligence…and looks! 🙂 
  • Sending only private msgs, attempting to call, whatsapp, etc…….sans ANY interaction on my wall….I have given my family my password and generally use social media in full view of my family, when we all catch up official/ personal work
  • Watching, lurking, never interacting…..it is polite to wish each other’s families when we put up a ‘brag post’ or a homecoming or birthday post….if the person is a prolific post-er, I get tired of the ha-ha, or the wow I keep putting on their wall in reaction to their clothes, food, home, kids, car, etc……if they never reciprocate….rejoice!!! you can let go, just un-follow them 🙂 
  • There are those who are inactive on social media, and those who are much older and those I know in real life…..I do not bear them any grudge…if they were to nuke all my posts …I would still respect them……
  • Family time begins….gadgets down, barriers down……………..have fun, everyone who has made it through this…..

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