The glow of courtship

When humans are attracted to each other…they tend to find paths that lead them to the person they feel is ‘the one’. The stages of love….

  • The accidental meeting…..people are meant to collide with those they adore…and abhor! it takes all kinds and we gravitate to the ones we adore
  • The attentive phase—-curiosity and a display of great manners…aided by expensive liquids in tiny bottles….yeah, perfumes outweigh pheromones any day!
  • Showing off….covertly and subtly, of course…the best side is casually displayed…..
  • The ‘eyes only for you’…..love-struck poems (original are few and far between), the plethora of these is copied from the highway of information, the internet–and  are exchanged ad nauseam …..the connection is established through a borrowed persona!
  • The layers peel……(sometimes, accompanied by the peeling of apparel)….the true person is revealed…..many bolt as the extraordinary transforms into the ordinary!
  • The dependence….dip-n-dance…….emotionally, spiritually and physically, one is happier with the other….sublime, surreal, superb mingling of souls
  • Exclusivity….none can stir the passion…..love/ anger/ hurt/ longing…..as this person can..elevate you to cloud 9 and drop you in an abyss…..a roller-coaster of awesomeness…
  • Permanence —–oxygen takes a back seat, this person is your life line
  • Happily ever after…..most attain what people long for , the other half of their soul….the complete mingling and exquisite bonding of two, who remain individuals while breathing as one….. 
  • Sadly for some…boredom and contempt creep in…..as the high gives way to satiation for most of us………..some wander…..and keep searching in vain for what they had, and have lost forever…………..as the other has realized that the flame is gone, and moves on….

If you have the connection, the person who can move you from passion to laughter to tears in the blink of an eye…..hang on, you will never get it if you keep flitting to others……there are many that catch the eye, but the one shares your vision…..forever and more……

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